[The Work Series]II. Taking Responsibility

I knew my Classical Civilizations teacher liked to use big words, but when he started a discussion on "moratoriums" I thought he was talking about something like a crematorium. I finally got that a moratorium was stopping work, and in this case referring to his and his TAs' response to emails submitted about the upcoming paper. The discussion was whether they should answer emails right up to the deadline (5:30 on Friday), or not guarantee an answer for two hours before the deadline (3:30) or for a day before (5:30 on Thursday). I thought it was kindof weird he was even asking us; I would never dare to ask my teacher a question about my paper thirty minutes before it was due and then get indignant when he didn't respond. Especially since this paper (and all others) had been assigned since the beginning of the year.

My thoughts were, if you started it late, finish it on your own. My professor had often stated his willingness to look over the whole paper and give comments if it was turned in a week before the deadline. By answering questions up to the minute the paper was due, they were simply encouraging procrastination by giving basically the same rewards to those who worked hard or not. When a student chose to procrastinate on the paper, they also chose the consequence of not having the teacher's immediate support.

This brought me back to high school, and how everyone's parents got them out of school if there was a project due or test that day. As if the teacher would just pretend the thing hadn't been assigned weeks ago. (Though it seemed like some teachers did go that route.) I remember sometimes thinking, "why won't MY parents just take me out of school like that?" but I don't remember any test or project that was so hard or treacherous I died because I did it the assigned day. My parents didn't pull me out of school because they wanted me to take responsibility for my actions. Whether I procrastinated on the assignment/studying or not, I needed to learn that consequences followed every action. Just because something hard was coming didn't mean I could get whisked away to Sick Day land. That's not how the real world is, or at least it shouldn't be. Oh dang, I have a really scary important interview today I don't want to go to. Let me call up Mom and we'll go on a shopping spree to cheer me up & I'll just put it off until tomorrow. This is life. Be accountable for our own.

Read part one.